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guidetrainlove:

Practise

guidetrainlove:

Practise

Finally finished my new feminist/sassy banners!!! (:
They’re all up for sale in my shop, check it out here!

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sp00ky-shucks:

things women worry about under patriarchy: rape, domestic violence, access to contraceptives, equal pay

things men worry about under patriarchy: getting called gay, paying for dates, why does the car wash give women $1 off on wednesdays

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heyatleastitsnotcancer:

I don’t think people understand that my body needs to get a certain amount of sleep. I cannot just skip those hours or I’ll be out of commission for the next week. It doesn’t work like that for the chronically ill. Skipping sleep isn’t easy or doable or a simple solution. It is an impossibility. 

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manic-mixtapes:

"things i wanted to say but never did"

manic-mixtapes:

"things i wanted to say but never did"

Anonymous asked: I can't remember how I stumbled across your blog but it's been a real eye opener & now I never miss a post. Thanks for being so funny, sincere, and educational. I'm not submissive. I have never felt that need to submit or give up control, but I'm so intrigued and almost jealous of the intimacy (in general- not just the sex -but the sex too) and closeness that couples in D/s seem to experience I feel like I'm willing to try. Can you learn to be submissive if it's not part of your nature to do so?

domwithpen:

I think submissiveness is like blondness—you is or you ain’t.

That said, the intimacy is a result of explicit and open partnership—the “I’ll handle this, you handle that” exchange.

And you don’t have to be a pushover outside the bedroom to be submissive. Just consider there may be things about yourself you still have to learn, and be open to that.

domwithpen:

Being submissive in the world of BDSM does not mean you are weak or incapable of making decisions. It means you choose to give up those decisions.

Only one person can drive a car; that fact makes no implication that the driver is somehow superior to the passengers. Many couples switch off…

When a doctor didn’t believe me but then test results proved I was right…

whatshouldwecallchronicillness:

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